You Live..THEN You Learn

Almost Every single thing that can make us feel like we are soo high; can make us feel soo low. We live and we learn. Whether it is friends, boyfriends, money, school etc. You will go through it, and in the end when something goes wrong you will grow through it. And then comes the challenge..........you will be faced with it again head on. Now here is your chance to turn the other way and walk away. Dont give back in because u remember how good it felt or u think that things may be diff. You learned your lesson, now here is your chance to use what youve learned and walk away.
Ive been faced with bringing someone who was toxic to my life back in. Im gonna chose to Walk Away...........

SummerTime!!!!

Hey Guys:) Monday marked the official first day of Summer. The wierd part about it all is that I miss the winter time, and the fall and the spring. Its wierd but I Miss Hampton hmph. Last Summer I partied, went to the beach, met new ppl, had cookouts, etc etc. I was looking forward to all of that again this summer. But since I been home I been kinda umm bored. My bff is leaving me for Florida and she's always my ace in the summer. But I still have my sisters, so Im gonna do this internship, sip margaritas all summer and Enjoy the Summer breeze as much as I Can with my friends and family. This time next yr I will be a graduated, grown, working young woman. So Im DEF living my last summer as a "kid" haha. Carefree

--Smooches

How you gon win when you aint right within?.. Lauryn Hill

1. "Be The Change You Wish To See in the World" Gandhi

Hey my friends..associaties..past friends..enemies whosoever should come across this...this is for YOU. Self Love is MY First love. And I have learned through my many trials that this is who you must learn to love before you can be TRUELY Happy. Besides turning to youre faith; when you are down and out you must turn to yourself for that comfort, support, and be able to tell yourself that you CAN go on. Yea you always have your friends there for comfort, but many times it is hard to listen to someone else tell you what is best for you. As I sit here and think; the last few weeks I have sat around and listned to my friends cry, weep, and be unhappy over MEN. Now I know that this does not sound unfamiliar to any of us..but I am just Tired. You may feel like he is the only one for you, if you leave him youre life may be so different. But trust Everyone feels this way at sometime and it is not something that you cannot get through. Why must PRETTY, YOUNG and SMART Females continue to hold on to a Man who does not Appreciate you?

No one can can truely answer this question. But I just say this to say that if you LET GO and take time out to LOVE YOURSELF FIRST..it will become easier over time and you will not settle for anything less then butterflies..if a relationship feels more like a full time job LET IT GO. Take it from a girl who knows. Relying on myself and my FAITH has truely helped me to learn how to be truely HAPPY. If you are holding on to a relationship hoping that one day he will change; he will NOT. Not until you let go and let him realize what he is missing. I Promise. So LET GO..LET GOD..and LOVE YOURSELF. (We GROW through what we GO through) Remember that God does everything for a reason..and in the end as long as you come out a stronger and wiser person; it was all worth it. And the quote at the beginning of this "Be The Change You Wish To See In the World" Just Reminds me that I should continue to care about my true Happiness and I pray that you all do to.

"Stop putting a question mark where GOD has put a PERIOD"