Relationships in College!!

............So this is a question me an my Sis ask all the time! Various people, but all in the same position. [boys in college]............[or maybe just boys at Hampton] who knows? but anyway.. why dont you want a relationship???? & we get the same anwer all the time....."youre in college, why would you want to settle down now".."youre only 21 you have your whole life to settle down". okayy whatever! ...anyway point blank just dont go to anything with anyone here trying to find a relationship! Feel him out first and see what he's looking for out of what you guys have, because if its not what you want then it probably will never be! !

I just got out of a crazy situation with this [guy] at hampton ?? which may help explain his actions! anyway he tried talkin to me! not my type at all, yet he came across really sweet and i eventually let him in ..as things got deep, and my feelings grew i guess i scared him away. I did this by asking for a relationship! and i wonder why do guys always want to string females along at their convience, yet are afraid of real commitment? anywho; i stuck around and decided to wait.. yet eventually my feelings kept growing, his TRUE colors started showing, and i got left hurt, and with a whole bunch of unanswered questions. Telling myself that I never want to trust again! yet is it my fault because he told me from the door that he didnt want a relationship? Yet everything he said and did was different??

..and another thing?? why do girls settle. Is it because they are comfortable with what they have and truely believe they cant find better? what do u think!?